I struggled today choosing the right article to publish. I wrote four different ones all related to this past family holiday but somehow they were not as inspiring as I wanted them to be. Somehow neither one seem to hit me to the depths of my heart and mind!

 

Just when I was about to give up I received a letter from a friend who told me that she was done with Love! It made me chuckle though I don't believe in such thing, so we began to text back and forth about the silliness behind fighting love.

 

Finally I had a topic that I could share with everyone! Of course I am not going to share my private conversation with my friend or she will never speak to me again! ... But we did agree that I would write about the topic of our conversation.

 

Let me just explain how my sense of humor works when it comes to Love, Loving and being loved. It is something I totally Love to talk about since I happen to be one of those Loving Kind of Guys.

 

It is very difficult for people to discourage me to talk about Love or to make me see things in an unloving way. There is just no way that I can take away Love from Love because it is as silly as taking Oxygen from the air we breathe... We need Love to live! 

 

Yes I understand that Love sometimes can make us go insane and at times may not seem very loving; especially when we just don't feel that we are getting the Love we deserve. Perhaps when we have tried so hard to show our Love to someone and we have not seen that Love in return.

 

However I say... "Do not feel unloved just because you don't hear "I love You" , "I love your hair" , " I really Love your new outfit" or perhaps the more personal stuff like " I love your smile, your eyes your face... your everything!" OH how loving is that!

 

I know... it can be sickeningly Loving and you may say... That is just too much Love for me!

 

So I am taking a break from being so darn loving!

 

Love is quite complicated and we end up complicating Love even more, at times just because we are so demanding with Love that we always want it to be at a certain Loving Level.

 

Sometimes we will even pass right by Love and not recognize it as such, only because we have decided that we are simply done with our loving ways and also have decided that we were not going to Love anymore.

 

Anyone that has had a pet knows that Love is not always a linguistic expression, since Love is more of a feeling which is what we feel when our pets simply give to us their beautiful loving company and loving attention.

 

Now that is pure love!

 

It has no interest other than that of to Love and to express with all gratitude the innocent nature of loving. Animals are just the most loving aren't they?

 

Well we are no different than they are since we have something very much in common with the animal kingdom and that is that we need Love just as much as the air we breathe.

 

We often try to give Love a value or some kind of rating but Love is none divisible it is always Love no matter how you look at it.

 

Sure, sometimes it may feel more intense than others but that is only because we have perceived it that way. If you hold your breath for a long period of time, practically until it hurts.... then the next breath you take will seem far superior to the rest.

 

Well Love is exactly the same way!

 

Love is like Oxygen! Just because you may have it concentrated or dispersed it doesn't mean that it stops being Love. It continues to hold its value.

 

Loving is the same! When we have so much Love around us we begin to be less appreciative of all the Love we receive and at times even of the Love we are capable of giving.

 

Let's face it we are just the Loving kind and no matter if we try to convince ourselves that we are not longer going to Love, be Loving or want Love... We will just end up realizing that this is just a silly losing battle.

 

We have Love in our veins and we will Love whether we like it or not! We will find Love in our sleep and subconsciously if we need it.

 

We can try to repeat to those around us " I don't Love you anymore" , " My love is not longer as strong for you" , " I am simply not in Love" , " I just don't Love what you do" , " I am not going to say Love anymore" ... And so on.

 

However, it is amazing how even when we fight Love, to be loved or to be loving we just cannot help to say the word Love... it is addictive and it should be since it is part of our natural Loving ways.

 

We are lovingly creatures and we can be quite lovely when we can learn the true value and the real need for Love in our lives.

 

Love is like a digit in Mathematics that no matter if it is negative or positive, once we multiply it, divide it, add to it or subtract from it the product will always be Love.

 

I totally enjoy doing this type of exercises when as a rule I decide to use the word I want to avoid the most. It is amazing what results from such a simple technique, since it can be funny.

 

My friend and I laughed after I wrote this and I also realized that in a very Loving way I had maintained something that we all need in this life, which is Love.

 

Let's face it... we just cannot live without being Loved, showing Love and sharing Love.